Amy’s out AND IM IN!!!!
Mar 26, 2019
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YqwyTedIOJA

hi everyone how's everybody doing today
I'm sure you were expecting to see Amy
but Amy's sick today so you're gonna see
me instead aren't you excited I'm sure
you are
and that's because you're watching me so
Amy sick has been sick the whole day and
she just can't talk and because she have
a cold and I am the one who give her
that call because I was sick also before
that of course because I'm a very very
good husband amazing tremendous
wonderful husband so I believe sharing
is caring so I shared some other oh she
got her share and sat on my chair I fall
asleep so no she's really safe so we I'm
gonna talk to you today I don't know
what I'm gonna talk about but I'm sure
there's something we can talk about no
actually I know something really
important you know and I see it
happening with a lot of people you know
nowadays and it just doesn't make any
sense to me which is if there's
somebody's hurting you and you just keep
taking it and allow it and give many
chances for what you get a cut that off
you gotta just say you know enough is
enough and this is not gonna happen no
more and don't ever have the fear of
yeah this person is stepping on me or
this person you know doesn't care for my
feeling and I just I'm scared or I'm shy
to talk to them to tell them you know
what no that's what I'm feeling and this
is not gonna happen you know what you
have to speak up for yourself and a lot
of people that does not speak up for
themselves a lot of people just let
people step on them
take advantage of them and that's not
right it's not healthy for you you know
sometimes people get sick over how they
gonna confront people how they unis just
talk to people and tell them how they
feel you know what you should be able to
talk to speak what's in your mind okay
and if people doesn't like it so be it
too bad that's why you fail that's your
life your life not theirs
you're the one who have to take control
of it because it's yours no anybody else
you're the one who when you be putting
in a situation that somebody and I step
on your taken a bad advantage of you you
have to say no this is not gonna happen
you have to speak your mind it's hard
sometimes for people it never was hard
for me you know I will tell anybody
anything whatever my mind or whatever I
feel and I don't care you know what take
it or leave it that's me and that's my
life if you want to accept me the way I
am good but if you think you're gonna
come into my life okay for something not
gonna happen you're not gonna take
anything from me more than what I want
to give you and that's I think that's
that's fair enough for everybody
you know I will respect you I will love
you I will like you whatever okay as
long as I find the same from your side
but a lot of people these days does not
believe in that a lot of people just
want to take and don't give but trust me
those people cannot be friends cannot be
partners gonna be anything
you cannot be a friend or a partner or
husband or a wife to a selfish person
so the important that you love yourself
and believe in yourself first so we can
face people all kinds of people
especially the people who always think
of themselves and that's it you have to
believe in yourself you don't be scared
to talk to anybody you don't never be
scared to speak your mind because guess
what you're the one who gonna get sick
you're the one who can I get beat up you
were the one who get us sitting at night
can't sleep because you're telling
yourself your brain is screaming at you
I'm telling you you know how could you
you didn't you didn't talk back when
they said that you didn't do this you
should have done this you should have
done that okay so from now on okay train
yourself if somebody said something you
don't like you're gonna speak back you
gonna speak up if somebody is something
you don't like you're gonna take an
action but to sit down and sit back and
don't say anything and you will be
scared to make them mad you'll be scared
to me well they didn't get they didn't
care if you're gonna get mad or if
you're gonna be hurt or what's gonna
happen to you why would you care
relationships
friendship marriage whatever you want to
name it any any any relationship okay it
takes two and it's give and take it's
not one-way street it never was and they
will never be because if it's that's the
way then there is nothing there to hold
on
you have people sometimes will give
angry will get mad you know we all human
beings we all do mistakes but not all
the time
and we're not gonna use excuses for
every things happen no there is it just
since when you fell that no you know
what that is that is that is abusive
relationship or that I am being stepped
on by that person and then F is enough
I'm gonna speak up don't fear anybody
don't be scared to talk and guess what
if those people loves you either it's
there is only two ways there is no third
they either love you and they gonna
change that
and the yellow respects you or they you
know get away from out of your life and
if they got away out of your life you're
lucky you're lucky because they're for
the first time you're gonna see the
trash taking itself out and that's how
it should be when we got married there
was a lot of people did not like me and
I don't want to say they were scared of
me because I'm not scared to anybody I'm
a very nice person you can see them but
they didn't like the situation they were
like oh you know no he is controlling
you why would you why would you have to
ask him about this why would you have to
ask him about that you know it's just in
life he's just over control no I'm not
controlled okay but I'm putting
boundaries you're not gonna call a
midnight to my house you're not gonna
show up to my house whenever you want
okay you're not gonna ask my wife to buy
stuff and put it on her credit cards no
that's not gonna happen it's done and
that's when they start you know oh you
control oh no no there is stuff you're
not gonna do that it took me a long time
even with her so tell her you know what
no you have to say no
you have to say no that word is amazing
world people have to use it sometimes
especially with some people don't let
people walk over you there has to be
boundaries you wouldn't like me to show
up in your house and midnight or without
calling or whatever okay you wouldn't
like me calling you midnight or after
midnight so I don't like the same thing
so I'm sorry if you don't like it but
too bad you like it or not it's not
gonna make any difference to me okay
you're not gonna respect me you're not
you're not gonna disrespect me you're
not gonna disrespect my wife okay and
expect the time you just sit down and
don't say anything
oh no we're talking no or not and even
if you're joking our that's how you joke
do not joke with me and my wife that way
any relationship if there is no respect
in it there is no relationship marriage
friendship any kind of business
relationship any kind of relationship if
there is no respect trust me you have no
relationship it's not gonna last the
most important part of any relationship
is respect if that part is gone the
whole relationship is gone there is no
relationship
so you have to set boundaries for
yourself you have to speak up for
yourself you have to know when when is
the time that you know what no this is
negative work with me no more I am way
better than that I deserve more than
that I deserve more respect will never
you will never ever see a relationship a
successful relationship between anybody
of any kind of relationship has no
respect and its successful this is just
not gonna happen
and respect is is in everything time
people calling you you know yeah
sometimes you know somebody will call
you midnight if there is a disaster or
something very emergency urgent
something urgent or an emergency
happened yeah okay but something
somebody will call hey it's it's 1:00
a.m. and hello I'm just asking about
those cookies you know that we got them
from a store I don't care or cool oh I'm
bored just so I thought I call you while
you're bored then I don't know babe
go find something else to do better than
calling me at that time of the night so
the importance in every relationship is
respect okay it's give and take there is
a space for both parties to talk to
speak but if it's only one way one
speaks and other lessons and that's it
that's your relationship if you always
feel that you're just getting pushed and
getting stepped on and there is nothing
there but I my advice to you is get out
of that this is an abusive situation you
don't need to be in it you deserve way
better than that it is a way more better
than that because the other person is
not better than you in any way they're
not nobody's better than you nobody is
better than anybody
so that's what I wanted to talk about
today and I hope you'll like the video
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bye bye